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A Mom's Year

Creating a comfortable life one moment at a time

January 29, 2011

Book of the Week: Bird by Bird

I started slipping into Immobilized Mode today. Does this ever happen to you? All the things I want and have to do start spinning around in my head faster and faster until I totally freeze up and can’t do anything except stand at the kitchen counter eating Häagen-Dazs while flipping through People magazine. A sure path to success.

Fortunately, I have a little phrase that can pull me out of this.

When Tim and I were first married, he worked for a company called NATCO that supported computer systems for Northwest Airlines’ flight simulators. The best part of his job was the free flight benefits. One of our favorite places to go was Portland, Oregon. Beautiful town and home to a huge bookstore called Powells. We were spending a leisurely afternoon there browsing our way through the shelves when Tim said, “Hey. Check this out.” He was holding Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott. He read the blurb on the back, which I’ll summarize for you:

When Anne’s brother was 10 years old he had to write a report about birds. He’d had three months to finish it but hadn’t done anything and it was due the next day. He was sitting at the kitchen table practically in tears with piles of bird books and papers surrounding him “immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead.” Maybe you know the feeling. Then their father sat down, put his arm around the boy, and said, “Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.”

Isn’t that the best? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve repeated “bird by bird” to myself over the years. Or all the times Tim has said it to me. Pretty much daily, in fact. I rarely say it to him because he’s far less foolish than I am about trying to do too much. I love Anne Lamott for giving us a mental talisman to ward off the spinning.

The book is full of great stuff for writers, but it also has plenty of wisdom and humor that everyone can appreciate.

  • Speaking of birds, I think the “put a bird on it!” video posted on Design Sponge is hilarious. And you know what? It’s absolutely true. Lily and I went to Target today and saw those little birds all over the place.
  • Rachel at Buttons Magee has a great post about the things she’s learned from other women through the years. What a neat thing to think about.
  • Amazing.
  • Still putting together Lily’s classroom Chinese New Year party. We’ll have to hand out red envelopes like these for good luck. Maybe with a pretend yuan inside.
Have a great weekend!

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  1. Lou Ann says

    January 29, 2011 at 8:55 am

    I always wondered how to describe that exact feeling…immobiized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Exactly. I hate when that happens. Now I know I am not alone and I am challenged to think of “bird by bird”, thank you Shannon.

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  2. Shannon Taylor says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:35 pm

    I’m so glad this resonated with you, Lou Ann. I really do say it all the time. It helps!

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  3. Michelle says

    January 31, 2011 at 8:35 am

    I love Anne Lamott. Have you read any of her other books? Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith is one of my faves.

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  4. Shannon Taylor says

    January 31, 2011 at 12:36 pm

    I love Lamott’s books on faith. She’s got such a great, wry sense of humor.

    Reply
  5. Tim says

    February 1, 2011 at 9:17 pm

    I really liked Plan B: and Traveling Mercies, highly recommend.

    Reply

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